Blessing Dilemma...

Ok, so here it is. I am a very private person - I am not one for big parties or celebrations in my honor, nor do I like being the host for any such party. It stresses me out and I (believe it or not) am quite shy so the attention on me or in my immediate direction is overwhelming. This is why I wanted to elope and not have a huge wedding - but Bert insisted and got his way. 

Back to the subject at hand. Now the dilemma of Aurora's baby blessing is upon me and fast approaching - much like swimming suit season which is a topic for a later post - if I could have my way I would not make a big whoop-de-do about the whole thing but I was informed by Bert it is a big thing (am I having a Deja Vu moment?), so who do I invite? How far do you go down the family tree and "friend tree"...do I invite friends and friends families I grew up with? 

AHHHH any suggestions would be most helpful before I just bag the whole thing!! And I've only got 3 weeks until my original "blessing date" I picked out.